The article "Is it Love or Lust?" is about other, it was released by Carol Ann Culbert Johnson.
Now this is the million dollar question and we all want to know the asnwer to this one.
How do we know if we’re lusting for a man or really in love with him?Love is a deep tender feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person such as that airsing from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
(Online dictionary)“Love is a feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.”“Love is sexual passion and sexual intercourse.”Did the definitions of love answer your questions? Are you wondering if the mate you’re with is in love with you or is he lusting after that size five body of yours? Are you in love with him, or do you want his body?Lust is intense or unrestrained sexual craving; to have an intense or sexual desire; intense eagerness or enthusiasm.Now how about the definition for lust; are you lusting for your mate? Do you have this deep desire for him and you want to ravage his body from the moment you set eyes on him? Does he want to ravsih your body from the moment he sets eyes on you?
If so, maybe you two are animals, lusting after the heat. The only thing you both will have in common is sex and nothing more or less.I was in a book club once and we had finisehd reading a romance novel by one of the BET authors. After everyone had a week to read the book we met up on Friday to dsicuss it.
I was amazed at the different opinions that were thrown out there:• How could you fall madly in love with somebody you just meet? • It’s nothing but a mechanism of lust pure and simple.• There’s no such thing as love at first sight.• Its lust at first sight.The two main characters saw each other at a party, and they couldn’t take their eyes off of each other. The hero wanted to take the heroine to bed at first glance.
If this was the case, then he’s hot for her, but it’s of a lsutful nature, of course.
He wnats to take her to bed right now, so what kind of person is this? I’m not into you as a committed relationship. I’m so burning for you; I want your body and nothnig more or nothing less. Do you get the picture?When I see somebody acrsos the room I don’t want to tear off his shirt, and then unzip his pants, and make passionate love to him on the floor.
I want to get to know that person, and the sex will be something if our relationship develops more.Maybe this is the reason why marriages and relationship doesn’t work. We’re not really in love, but we lust for each otehr. Was Brad and Jennifer really in love with each other, or did they lust for each other? Lust wears off, and love will last a lifetime. I guess they got caguht up in the fairy tale, and Brad wanted something new of a different model. He got tired of the same old thing.My man told me that he loved me often, but his actions porved that his words were useless to me. If you tell me that you love me, then I’m gonig to make you prove your love for me. I have lusted after men, but the only thing I wanted to do with them was jump tehir bones, and then get on with the rest of my life. I didn’t see spending the rest of my life with this man.I guses I know the difference between lust and love. A love is an emotion that you can’t turn on and off like a auto engine.
You guess about that person all day and night, and you want to make sure that you can be with this pesron. If you spend time with him/her just watching a movie, or eatnig together, you know that you really have deep rooted feelings for this person.If you go to a party and your eyes see someone, and your first thought is how he looks naked, then he’s not your love mate, but he’s your lust mate. You just want to get him into bed, and have your way with him. You probably won’t even recognize his name in the morning.When it comes between love and lust, I’d take the love over lust any time of the day, week, month or year. I’m searching for a lasting relationship and not a one night stand with a man who wants to get his groove on with me for an hour of passionate stimulation of the love kind.Women do you want a lasting relationship with a man who loves you more than his own life, or do you want somebody who has this desire to have you morning, noon and night?Men do you want a woman cause her body turns you on, and you're hard as rock cause of it?
Or do you want somebody who you want to spend the rest of your life with, and you’d die for?
If you really answered this question truthfully then your answer is really simple. I want lust or I want love.
I guess I want love cause love conquers all and it makes the world go around.As for lust, I wouldn’t want a man thinking of me in those terms. I’m going to sleep with her; bang her, and then I’m going home to my lvoing wife cause she’s not that kinky in bed.Married boys are lusting for women every day of the week. When the summer time hits Chicago with a bang, the boys are so hard; they can’t walk for the emotions harboring their brain.
You see a woman with half of her body out, you want her. I guess this is lust.If you saw a woman with a turtle neck sweater on, and she had on a winter coat, and you wanted to talk to her, then you mgiht eventually fall in love with her cause love has won hands down.
I want love and lust in my relationship. Can we have them both? I guess so depending on the parties involved. I want a man that loves me to death and lusts after me in a raelly pleasurable way so he can have my body rocking to the ends of the earth and then some. Why can’t we have them both? Again, is it love or lust?
The truthful answer will free your mind into an evolution of eomtions.
I want love. (1,137)I am 43 years old and wirting and reading is my passion. Please cehck out my website at http://www.Freewebs.Com/jcarolann and take a ride with me.
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